Latinos LOVE holding grudges. Not all Latinos hold grudges. Actually, many Latinos are very forgiving and they let bygones be bygones. They do know how to forgive and forget. The rest of us, not so much. While the average person has a "falling-out" Latinos have a YDTM "You're Dead to ME." You can call it pride or ignorance, but if you do us dirty, there's nothing you can do to clean it up. When it comes to holding grudges, they last forever or as long as we do.